By Kevin Begos

Developing a Good Relationship

By Kevin Begos

Every doctor-patient relationship is unique, so there are no absolute rules for how to establish good communication. Nevertheless, based on patient and doctor feedback for this article, CR found several important themes.

For Patients
1. Think and talk about communication needs from the very beginning.

2. Find extra support in the early stages after diagnosis. Have someone accompany you to appointments, or develop a support network in addition to your doctor.

3. Educate yourself and take your notes to your doctor’s visits. Write more notes during your appointments.

4. Get a second or third opinion if you wish, and develop a trusting relationship with the doctor you choose.

5. If you’re not comfortable with your doctor, consider switching to a new one.

For Doctors
1. Remember that patients need emotional as well as medical support.

2. Learn some details of the patient’s personal life.

3. Accept the possibility of both good and bad information coming from the internet.

4. Patients who don’t ask questions may need some coaxing.

5. Be aware of racial and economic disparities that may affect communication.